Wisdom's Many Facets
Defining Good Wisdom
Wisdom is a complex and elusive concept that has been studied and debated by philosophers, psychologists, and scholars for centuries. It is often defined as the ability to apply knowledge, experience, and judgment to make sound decisions and choices in various situations. Wisdom is also associated with virtues such as compassion, humility, and integrity.
But wisdom is not a single or simple thing. It has many facets, dimensions, and perspectives. It can be influenced by culture, context, and personal values. It can be learned, cultivated, or lost. It can be expressed in different ways, such as through words, actions, or silence.
This blog is here to explore the many facets of wisdom and how they relate to various aspects of life. You will find articles that discuss and compare different types of wisdom, such as the wisdom of work, positive thinking, business, common sense, religion, etc. You will learn how some forms of wisdom have benefits, but others may fail us or even harm us. You will also discover how to develop and apply your own wisdom in different situations and challenges.
Listen to the Color of Your Dreams: The False Scourge of Our Demon Drugs
Terry Trueman
8 Minute Or Less Read Time
Some levels of consciousness let you tune in to the colors of your dreams; you can decide to try it or not, but the Fab Four and Dylan probably have no regrets.
How Kindness & Civility Fails With Some People
Terry Trueman
11 Minute Or Less Read Time
Unveiling the dangerous dance between misinformation and ignorance, this article sheds light on the negative consequences they have on individuals and society. It explores strategies to combat these issues, such as media literacy, critical thinking, and engaging in respectful dialogue. By emphasizing the importance of accurate information, open-mindedness, and responsible decision-making, the article empowers readers to navigate the complex landscape of information overload and contribute to a more informed, rational, and democratic society.
The Importance of Recognizing Cognitive Bias: Becoming a Better Thinker
Vincent Triola
6 Minute Or Less Read Time
Ever wondered why we credit ourselves for success but blame others for failures? Learn about the fundamental attribution error and self-serving bias in this enlightening article.
Navigating Autonomy & Family Dynamics: Ethical Considerations for Adults Seeking Independence
Terry Trueman
9 Minute Or Less Read Time
Delve into the concepts of justice and fairness within the family unit. Challenge traditional notions of favoritism and discrimination, and embrace a more inclusive and equitable approach to familial relationships.
Embracing the Challenge: Loving Those with Racist Views
Terry Trueman
11 Minute Or Less Read Time
How to Help People Change: A Guide for the Frustrated
Are you tired of hitting a wall when trying to change someone's behavior? This insightful document offers a
refreshing approach to inspire transformation without resorting to manipulation or force. Uncover the power of
humor as a tool to break through resistance, foster self-improvement, and strengthen relationships. Learn how to
navigate difficult situations with a touch of laughter and understanding.
Confessions of a Naughty Therapist
Terry Trueman
6 Minute Or Less Read Time
This is not your typical therapist’s story. This is a story of lust, love, and betrayal. A story of a man who broke the rules and slept with his patients. A story of a man who faced the consequences and the criticism of his actions. A story of a man who dared to challenge the sexual norms and morals of his culture. This is the story of a naughty therapist.
History, CRT, Psychology & You: Blending Developmental Psychology & Political Philosophy
Terry Trueman
6 Minute Or Less Read Time
Denying America’s history of racism does not erase it. We need psychological insight and CRT education to face the reality and develop a political philosophy that is fair and humane.
The Benefits & Drawbacks of Twin Studies in the Field of Psychology
Vincent Triola
6 Minute Or Less Read Time
Beyond the Headlines: The Real Story of Twin Research and Its Implications. This article examines the benefits and limitations of twin research, a method that uses the natural variation in genetic relatedness among twins to study the effects of nature and nurture on various traits and outcomes. The author warns that media and researchers can overstate the similarities between twins and ignore the diversity and complexity of environmental factors that also influence human development.
Personality Development & Moral Reasoning of The Republican
Terry Trueman
7 Minute Or Less Read Time
In this article, the author examines the psychology of the GOP and the abnormality of Republicans. Using insights from Abnormal Psychology and Developmental Psychology, the author shows how personality type and moral development influence our political orientation. The author also questions how people from the same family and background can have such divergent views on democracy and fascism.
The Wisdom of Business Statistics: Assume Nothing & Avoid Being Manipulated
Vincent Triola
7 Minute Or Less Read Time
Explore the ethical implications of business statistics in ‘The Wisdom of Business Statistics: Assume Nothing & Avoid Being Manipulated’. This article illuminates the potential for misuse of statistics in business and offers valuable insights on how to question and interpret statistical data.
Holiday Mental Health Wisdom & Not
Terry Trueman
4 Minute Or Less Read Time
You thought the holidays were supposed to be fun and joyful. But then you met your relatives. Now you're in for a nightmare of stress, anxiety, and chaos. How can you escape the horror and enjoy the season? Read this witty and helpful book to find out.
What is intuition? Is it usually wise to follow your intuition?
Vincent Triola
4 Minute Or Less Read Time
Intuition is the feeling or thought formed from beliefs, opinion, experience, and other subjective reasoning. Superstition is a belief or practice that is based on irrational or unfounded assumptions. How can we tell the difference between them and avoid falling into superstition? This article explains the concept of Empiricism, a philosophical approach developed by David Hume that emphasizes the importance of experience and observation in the formation of knowledge and beliefs.
An Introduction to Hume & Empiricism
Vincent Triola
6 Minute Or Less Read Time
Uncover the profound intellectual impact of David Hume, the esteemed Scottish philosopher, in this enlightening article. Celebrated for his significant contributions to philosophy, economics, and beyond, Hume's crowning achievement lies in his formulation of Empiricism. Join us as we embark on a captivating journey through the key tenets of Hume's philosophy, exploring the profound influence of his ideas on modern thought. Prepare to be captivated by the enduring legacy of this influential figure in the history of Western philosophy.
Virtue, Utilitarianism, & Deontological Ethics: What are the differences?
Vincent Triola
14 Minute Or Less Read Time
Learn about three important ethical theories: virtue ethics and which focuses on the moral character of the agent; utilitarianism, which focuses on the outcomes of the action; and deontological ethics, which focuses on the obligations or principles of the action. You will also see how these theories differ from each other, and how they can be used to analyze ethical dilemmas.
Productive & Counterproductive Behavior in Organizations: The Need to Measure Performance
Vincent Triola
5 Minute Or Less Read Time
Delve into how behavior, productive or otherwise, can influence your success in business or corporate advancement. Learn about the importance of gauging performance.
Seeking Psychological Help? A Complete Guide to What You Need to Know About Psychology
Vincent Triola
8 Minute Or Less Read Time
There are many types of therapies and theories in psychology, such as psychodynamic and behavioral ones. Learn how they differ and how to make the right choice for yourself.
Freud’s Theory of Conformity & Other Science Fiction
Vincent Triola
9 Minute Or Less Read Time
Freud’s theory of conformity is one of the earliest and most influential explanations of why people act in agreement with others. However, it is not the only or the best one. In this article, we examine the strengths and weaknesses of Freud’s theory and contrast it with other psychological paradigms that offer different perspectives on conformity and group behavior. We also discuss the practical applications and implications of understanding conformity in various domains and fields.
Reflection Theory: Functionalism & Conflict Theory Perspectives
Vincent Triola
5 Minute Or Less Read Time
Culture is not only a tool, but also a reflection of the social world. In this article, we introduce the concept of reflection theory, which analyzes how culture and society shape each other. We explain the differences and similarities between the two main perspectives of reflection theory: functionalism and conflict theory. We also show how each perspective applies to various aspects of culture and society, such as media, politics, art, religion, education, and family. We also assess the benefits and drawbacks of reflection theory.
What are the similarities & differences between need theories?
Vincent Triola
9 Minute Or Less Read Time
Unravel the complexities of need theories in this comprehensive article. Discover how these theories, despite their differences, all agree on one premise: human behavior is motivated by internal and external needs.
The Difference Between Extrinsic & Intrinsic Motivation: Why It Matters
Vincent Triola
8 Minute Or Less Read Time
Understand the distinction between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation and how they influence behavior and performance. Learn how to apply both types of motivation suitably and flexibly in different fields and situations. Improve your performance and satisfaction by balancing extrinsic and intrinsic motivation.
The Four Forms of Motivation: Extrinsic, Identified, Intrinsic, & Introjected
Vincent Triola
6 Minute Or Less Read Time
What motivates you to do what you do? In this article, you will learn about the four forms of motivation that influence human behavior: extrinsic, identified, intrinsic, and introjected. You will discover how these motivation forms originate from external or internal factors, lead to action or non-action, and have positive or negative consequences. You will also find out how to use these motivation forms wisely to enhance your performance and satisfaction in life.
Unveiling the Pitfalls: Why Pay-for-Performance Fails to Deliver Long-Term Results
Vincent Triola
8 Minute Or Less Read Time
How effective are pay-for-performance systems in motivating employees? This article explores the problems of performance pay, suggesting that motivation needs better defining to undertand the inconsistencies in performance pay results.
The Law of Effect: How Consequences Influence Behavior & Why Rewarding Yourself Doesn’t Motivate
Vincent Triola
10 Minute Or Less Read Time
Rewarding yourself may sound like a good idea to motivate yourself to do things you don’t like or find hard. But did you know that self-rewarding can actually harm your motivation, performance, and well-being? In this article, you will uncover the psychological concepts of the Law of Effect and operant conditioning, and how they show why self-rewarding doesn’t work. You will also find out about a better way to self-motivate: Drive Fulfillment. This is the process of achieving your desires and needs by creating practical strategies, rather than relying on external stimuli. Read on to discover how to implement Drive Fulfillment in your life and attain your goals.
Linguistics, True Crime Wisdom, Bad Thinking, & Talking Politics
Terry Trueman
7 Minute Or Less Read Time
Christian Republicans and the Dangers of Magical Thinking: Unveiling the Two Faces of Madness
Peek behind the curtain of religious beliefs and political affiliations as we explore the perplexing phenomenon of
magical thinking among Christian Republicans. Uncover the unsettling prevalence of distorted reasoning, where even
the most mundane acts are equated with heinous crimes. Prepare to be captivated by this eye-opening examination of
the two faces of madness.
Do companies really need CEOs?
Vincent Triola
8 Minute Or Less Read Time
Examine the necessity of CEOs in modern organizations. By analyzing their impact on company value. Are these leaders necessary? Statistics say they are not worth the cost. CEO compensation requires a radical overhaul.
Inequality, Life Chances, Upward Mobility, & the American Dream
Vincent Triola
6 Minute Or Less Read Time
How realistic is the American Dream? Examine the dream and how it influences the decisions and prospects of Americans in the present day. Challenges the myth surrounding this dream that can make people work their lives away for nothing.
Seeming Random Acts In Deliberate Positive Wisdom
This article is about how percieving randomness through the lens of faith and religion can form a dishonest fiction we use to avoid the uncontrollable circumstances and life's responsibilities. Using language and logic to challenge and enlighten the reader, this article shows the detriment caused by adage, superficial, positive, and magical thinking inspired by faith and religion.
Sheehan
Terry Trueman
18 Minute Or Less Read Time
Like a window into the soul, the poem Sheehan reveals the heart-wrenching journey of parents with children who have severe physical and mental disabilities. For those seeking to understand the experience of having a child with severe physical and mental disabilities, the poem Sheehan offers a poignant glimpse into the depth of heartbreak endured by these parents.
Maintain Perfect Form In All Things Because Why Not
Terry Trueman
3 Minute Or Less Read Time
Perfect form in all things? Challenge accepted. Even if we die trying, at least our tombstone will read “Died with perfect form.”
Life, Virus’s, Not Mozart, & Car Thieves
Terry Trueman
7 Minute Or Less Read Time
Like a ship in a storm, life demands we become self-sufficient sailors. But the mirage of control is a siren’s song, luring us towards a fate worse than futility’s sarcasm.
Wisdom Jumps From Chaos to Joy
Terry Trueman
5 Minute Or Less Read Time
Even when things seem chaotic, simple ideas are still there waiting to be found. Amidst the tumultuous landscape of emotions, circumstances, and untamed nature, simple ideas remain steadfast, awaiting discovery.
Wisdom Connections From Love, Art, & Friendship
Terry Trueman
7 Minute Or Less Read Time
In the face of adversity, Tea and his friend stood strong. They refused to let COVID-19 defeat them and instead chose to live each day to the fullest.
Wise, Simple Observations of Obvious Assholes
Terry Trueman
3 Minute Or Less Read Time
Time flows like a river, infinite yet fleeting. Our existence, a mere drop in its vastness. Life is fragile, safety but a temporary illusion. In a world of contradictions, human behavior is complex. Beliefs and actions often inconsistent, even those who stand for something may falter. Cherish each moment, waste not on nonsense. Embrace the impermanence, understand the intricacies of our nature.
Fiction & Life Colliding, Making Ambition A Tiny Puff of Nothing
Ambition is complex, multifaceted, and varies amongst people, but unfairness appears in companies of all sizes, in the form of nepotism, cronyism, favoritism, glass ceilings, racial bias, and other forms of inequality. These issues are not isolated incidents but rather standard practices in corporations. Companies may subject potential employees to rigorous hiring processes and deman ambition while simultaneously hiring overpriced CEOs and executives based solely on their reputation. The same rules that apply to workers and lower-level managers do not apply to CEOs, resulting in overpaid executives unable to generate a positive return on their compensation investment.
A Wisdom Blip or 2 or Not
Terry Trueman
3 Minute Or Less Read Time
Consumption has become the primary driver of ecological crisis. Economics based on consumption can have a significant impact on the environment and society. A linear economy, where resources are extracted, used, and then disposed of as waste, can lead to overconsumption and depletion of natural resources.
Spinning Wheel in Spokane
Terry Trueman
8 Minute Or Less Read Time
Fascism and discrimination against the disabled have no place in our society! Both suppress individual freedoms and promote a particular group or race as superior to others. We must stand up against such injustice!
Mad Scramble Away From Wisdom’s Face-plants
Terry Trueman
4 Minute Or Less Read Time
The road to wisdom can be a bumpy one, with pot holes that can make us stumble and fall. Best not to think in ways that cause face-plants, but if you do pick yourself back up and face these challenges head-on to truly grow and learn.
Wisdom & the Upside downside of Aging
Terry Trueman
4 Minute Or Less Read Time
Aging is a journey filled with highs and lows. As we grow older, we gain wisdom and understanding, but it can also be a time of challenges and difficulties. The wisdom of aging is bittersweet - it brings with it both joy and sorrow. But through it all, we continue to learn and grow.
Some Shit is Simply Less Complicated Than Other Shit
Terry Trueman
5 Minute Or Less Read Time
This erudite exploration of the themes of responsibility and forgiveness draws uses legends and common sense to elucidate its arguments. The author contends that facile justifications for immoral behavior are insufficient and challenges the reader to truly consider what it means to take responsibility for one’s actions.
Some shit never changes, some corruption never goes out of fashion.
Terry Trueman
3 Minute Or Less Read Time
Perhaps the only truth is that nothing lasts forever. If so, much wisdom derives from that belief to appreciate the present moment and the things we have.
Wisdom Is What’s Left When Pain Ceases
Terry Trueman
4 Minute Or Less Read Time
Pain can be a transformative experience, changing one’s perspective and understanding of the world. Once the pain is gone, the new perspective remains as wisdom.
Fall is near, Happy Birds Are Queer…
Terry Trueman
Under A Minute Read Time
Pain can be a transformative experience, changing one’s perspective and understanding of the world. Once the pain is gone, the new perspective remains as wisdom.
Three “Thank You’s” From a Life Long-Lived & Still Living
Terry Trueman
Under A Minute Read Time
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The Only Thing You Need to Know When Starting a Business
Vincent Triola
9 Minute Or Less Read Time
Ethics are a myth in business, especially when starting a new business. A realistic and sobering view of the business world, where corruption and exploitation are rampant. The author advises that the only thing you need to know when starting a business is your why, and that you should use it as a motivation and a justification for your actions, regardless of their impact on others.
Admitting sexual preference & identity is easier, but NOT MUCH!
Terry Trueman
1 Minute Or Less Read Time
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The Mindfulness Road from Hawaii to San Diego
Vincent Triola
7 Minute Or Less Read Time
Vincent Triola’s journey from Arizona to Hawaii and his exploration of mindfulness as a way of living. A writer’s quest for meaning and mindfulness in Hawaii.
Life’s not a pass or fail.
Vincent Triola
7 Minute Or Less Read Time
Life is not a pass or fail situation. You don’t have to judge yourself harshly because of your divorce, your job loss, or any other difficulty that you encounter. Find out how to accept life as it is and live with more grace and ease.
What the hell is wisdom?
Vincent Triola
8 Minute Or Less Read Time
How do you define wisdom and how do you acquire it? This article explores the concept of wisdom and its various definitions, benefits, and challenges. The author questions the value and meaning of wisdom in the face of suffering and ignorance, and proposes a new understanding of wisdom as a skill that can be learned and practiced1.
The Cost of Selling Ourselves: A Critical Look at the Role of Capitalism in Our Lives
Vincent Triola
7 Minute Or Less Read Time
Insights into the impact of external influences on self-improvement and the role of economic systems in shaping our lives and social interactions. In a world where we’re constantly bombarded with messages to sell ourselves, we need to step back and reevaluate the external influences that shape our lives and interactions.
Unquestioning obedience, including jobs, will lead to slavery.
Many people have questioned the role of work in our lives and whether it is a form of modern slavery. Some see work as a necessary part of society and a source of satisfaction, while others feel trapped and unhappy in their jobs. The term “slavery” may not apply to work, since workers are not owned by anyone and can choose their occupation, but the feeling of hopelessness and despair may be similar.